One day at a time
31/12/2019 by Nikita
English readers: scroll down a bit please. Ek is ‘n groot aanhanger van Country musiek and het die countrymusicartistfoundation co za gekry met die foto’s van ‘n paar legendes in Suid-Afrika se musiekwêreld van die (nie so ver) verlede. Nadat ek op twitter sommige mense se ‘tweets’ gesien het, het ek onthou van die mooi stem van Marie Gibson met ‘One day at a time’ en onthou hoe hierdie lied jou laat dink om die lewe ‘een dag per slag’ te neem.
Sommige van my ‘volgelinge’ (Onderwysers – in alle kategorieë van die Onderwys) het ge-‘tweet’ oor hoe ‘alleen’ hulle voel en dan was daar selfs van hulle wat beskryf hoe hartseer hulle voel en in trane is – omdat hulle alleen is en voel. Dis ongelooflik waar dat baie mense, in hierdie tyd waarin ons leef, alleen is en alleen voel. Mense is alleen om verskillende (baie) redes.
Jy moet net nie dat die alleenheid of die gevoel van alleenheid die oorhand kry en jou tot drastiese stappe laat lei nie. Besig bly en jou aandag aftrek is belangrik. Gelukkig is daar baie mense wat op hierdie ‘tweets’ van mense reageer en hulle aanmoedig of wat positiewe boodskappe terugstuur en selfs offer om die dag/aand met hulle te spandeer. Meeste mense, wie se ‘tweets’ ek gelees het, spandeer die aand in hul huise met die heel naaste familie, slaap vroeg en staan vroeg op en raak besig. Waarom moet daar nou spesifiek ‘n verskriklike groot partytjie, met ‘n paar hondered mense wees? Is dit regtig nodig? Skep mense ‘n idee wat ander laat voel hulle moet dit ook doen anders is hulle ‘uit’ of laat hulle voel hulle is ‘alleen’? Wat dink jy? O ja, Gelukkige Nuwe Jaar vir jou -wat hier lees – en ek hoop dat dinge vir jou ook positief sal uitwerk hierdie jaar en dat God jou sal seën!
I’m a big fan of country music and after reading some of my teacher-follower tweets, I remembered this song sung by a South African country singer – Marie Gibson. This song is about taking one day at a time.
Some tweets were about people feeling alone or lonely on a day like today. Luckily, many other of my followers encouraged them to be active, to do things and in this way, to get distracted by their thoughts of being alone.
My question is: do we need to have or attend parties of 50/100 people this time of the year? What is really important in your life? Many people tweeted about them just being with their closest relatives/family members, sleep early, get up and do the ‘normal’ things all people always do. This sounds great to me. Yes, we are all happy to start a new year. Yes, we are happy for everyone else for things that went well the previous year and for new resolutions and to get better at certain other things. But, do we have to attend this massive party to ‘show’ it? Are we letting other people feeling ‘left out’ with what we share in public? It’s the same with photos being altered by all sorts of apps and you let other people feel that they are not as beautiful as you are – whilst your photo was actually being photo-shopped? I really think we need to think about what we try to achieve with what we share and think about other people’s well-being too. What do you think? Btw – Happy New Year to you and I hope you will be blessed by God and that you will have a positive year this year!
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Wat ‘n depressiewe seleksie van foudies in daai clip. Die Afrikaners moet hul liefde vir depressiewe buie van die Nederlanders met hul ewig grys wolke geërf het.
Met betrekking tot partye. Hoekom moet dit óf ‘n party van 50/100 (ekonomie van skaal, ek verstaan) óf heeltemal alleen? Hoekom die uiterstes? 🙂 Wat van vyf gaste? Tien? Vyftien by die meeste?
Voorspoedige Nuwe Jaar, Nikkitta! ^-)
Hi Eugene, LOL @ jou kommentaar oor die foudies. 🙂 Ja selfs kleiner groepies. Die tweet van die persoon het gegaan oor enige-hoeveelheid partytjie. Selfs kleiner. My vraag ook: Hoekom moet daar elke jaar ‘n partytjie wees – as jy ‘n party-person is, dan is jy skielik in trane as daar nie een is nie en jy alleen is. Mens moet kan aanpassings maak anders maak jy maar die lewe moeilik vir jouself ook.
Hi. I notice you haven’t posted here for awhile. Hope you are all right. Coping with the corona virus? Email me, if you can. Dan.
Hi Dan, Doing good, thank you. In good health. At home, working from home. Schools are closed, we don’t actually have children from key workers, we had a about 10, but they all have someone to look after them. You and your wife? You’re okay?
I guess we haven’t talked in awhile. Nancy and I are divorced. We’re both doing well, though. Email me if you’d like more details
Hi Dan, I will email you, just a bit hectic at the moment with home-learning and teaching online! Good to hear you are doing well in this covid-19 time!